Jen Richards' quote is so much truth! "Imagine the joys and insights and movie & book recommendations and gardening tips and relationship revelations and gossip and Oscar predictions and outfits of the day and pet pictures trans people could share if we didn’t have to spend so much energy defending our basic humanity."

""There's no heaven to go to. Because we are in it already. We are in hell, too. They coexist right beside each other. And God is the land" Elsa, 1883

"Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" Audrey Hepburn.

T is still the backwater of LBGT, in spite of recent successes: Janet Mock, Andreja Pejic, Laverne Cox, and others. All are intelligent and successful women, who have been very open about their transition and are very much in public. So there is progress, but transgender is still not mainstream by any measure. Progress is happening, slow, baby steps at time followed by reversals, but enough for me at least to remain optimistic.

About me, I am retired, long time transgender/non binary.

Was married earlier in life and have been in several LTRs before and after my marriage. Not looking for a romantic relationship! Friends only.

I love conversation, fashion, but not conversation about politics.

Pam